"Listening should be at least half of what your brain is doing."

—Kid Andersen, Guitarist & Record Producer

I want to share a single anecdote about a moment when poor listening while playing led to a musical mishap or missed opportunity, but I’ve done it more than once. Listening to the rest of the band is a skill I possess and constantly work on, and I’m far from a master at this art. I'm also good at hearing when other musicians aren’t listening to the rest of the band. I'll hear it when they lose their place or miss an opportunity to use dynamics in a song.

Listening makes the difference in sounding professional (or sloppy).

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The Art of Listening While Playing

The Problem We Don't Talk About

Most musicians focus 90% on execution and just 10% on listening. You can hear it in their playing and see it in their body language.

We typically focus on technical obsession at the sacrifice of musical awareness. Getting all the chords or solos right takes precedence over listening.

Playing your part correctly isn't enough in ensemble settings. If you're not actively listening, correctly played parts can actually sound stiff, whereas playing parts correctly and actively listening makes you and your bandmates sound fluid and professional.

Kid Andersen's Core Insight

The 50% Rule: Mental Bandwidth

Kid Andersen, the blues guitarist who's played with everyone from Rick Estrin to Charlie Musselwhite, dropped this gem during our podcast conversation: "Listening should be at least half of what your brain is doing."

Think about that for a moment. Half. Not the leftover 10% after you've worried about your fingering, your timing, and whether you're hitting the right notes. Half of your mental capacity should be devoted to hearing what's happening around you.

If you're using 90% of your brainpower to execute your part, you're left with 10% to respond to a subtle tempo shift, an emotional crescendo, or an invitation to lock into a groove. You're essentially playing solo while standing next to other musicians.

The Technical Mastery Paradox

Here's where it gets interesting: Kid's insight reveals a paradox that trips up countless musicians. You must be technically solid enough that your execution becomes largely automatic before you can truly listen. But most musicians think technical mastery is the goal when it's just the entryway to real musicianship.

I've experienced this firsthand with fellow musicians when I change up the time signature of a groove or invite the band to make a dynamic shift. Bandmates will keep driving forward with a predetermined time signature or volume, missing my cues entirely. It's like being in the same physical space but having a different musical conversation. My bandmates aren't the only ones at fault, I’ve been guilty of similar disconnects.

The irony? Technical preparation, which should free us to listen, becomes a constraint. We can be so concerned with executing what we practice that we don't always respond to what is actually happening. Neuroscience backs this up—our brains have limited processing power, and when your technical skills become second nature, your brain suddenly has more bandwidth for real listening.

The Rush Trap

Musicians sometimes disconnect from the band when things get challenging due to a lack of practice and preparation. This shortcoming draws our attention from listening and tends to shut our hearing off during challenging parts.

Practical Listening Strategies

The Mental Split: Training Your Dual Awareness

The 50% rule sounds great (in theory), but how do you implement it? Start with "conscious splitting"—deliberately dividing your attention during practice sessions.

Here's an exercise to try.

Play a song you know well but assign specific percentages to your focus. Start with 70% execution and 30% listening. As the song becomes more automatic, shift to 60/40, then 50/50. It sounds mechanical, but this conscious practice trains your brain to multitask musically. I know multitasking is for suckers, but hear me out.

During band rehearsal, I often focus 60% of my listening on the bass line and 40% on my playing. It's like developing a peripheral vision for your ears.

Section Awareness: Your Musical GPS

Most musicians hear their band as one big block of sound. However, effective listening requires sectional focus—knowing when to tune into the rhythm section, when to follow the melody instruments, and when to track the harmony.

Rhythm Section Check-ins: As a drummer, I've learned to do quick check-ins with the bass. Every few measures, I consciously sync with what the bassist is playing—not just the notes, but their attack, groove, and feel.

Melody Awareness: Even when you're not playing the lead, track where the melody is. If you're the bassist and the vocalist is about to hit a high note, that's your cue to provide a solid foundation.

Harmonic Listening: Practice hearing chord changes before they happen. The ability to anticipate harmonic movement lets you make choices that support a song's structure rather than just playing your written part.

Quick Recovery Technique

When you get lost in a song, don't panic and attempt to figure out where you should be. Instead, listen to where the song is in the moment and join it there. I once blanked on a drum fill during a live show (okay, maybe twice) but hit the next downbeat by listening to the bass player. Sometimes your mistakes sound better than what you planned—listening skills help you turn accidents into collaborative moments.

Your Challenge

The next time you play with others—whether it's a rehearsal, jam session, or performance—try implementing Kid Andersen's 50% rule. Start with just one song where you consciously dedicate half your mental bandwidth to listening. Notice how it changes your playing and the entire musical conversation around you.

Want to Go Deeper?

This introduction to listening while playing only scratches the surface. In this week's Liner Notes Insider, subscribers get:

• Complete Training Methodology - Detailed ear training exercises beyond theory, including "Balance Training" and "Energy Detection" techniques
• Solo Practice Systems - How to develop ensemble listening skills when practicing alone, including "Metronome Conversations" and "Phantom Band" exercises
• Recording Analysis Framework - The uncomfortable truth about what you're actually contributing vs. what you think you're contributing
• Cognitive Science Deep-Dive - The neuroscience behind why these techniques work and how to optimize your brain for musical listening

Recommended Reading & Listening

​Jazz As Conversation​

​Music Stack Exchange - "How do jazz players communicate while playing?"​

​Unstarving Musician Episode 3 | Kid Andersen – Greaseland Studios, Playing The Blues, Musicianship, and Music Ed.​

Coming Up

Next week, we'll explore advanced applications: how to lead through listening, genre-specific skills, and reading the room. Plus, reader-response to staying current without burning out.

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